The Lasts Night

24-hours from now, Annette and I will be checking into Kennestone Hospital to deliver our third child. She’ll be hooked up to the IV, given some medications, etc., and the process will begin. The doctor says we should have our first son in our arms sometime Wednesday.

This is the first time Annette is being induced. She delivered McKenna au natural. Amazing. But the labor lasted 26 hours… Not terribly pleasant.

So Caia came into the world under the glory of the epidural.

This go ’round, there are some “risks” involved. Our little man “Jackson” only has two vessels in his umbilical cord. He’s supposed to have 3. And my poor bride discovered, after itching so badly that she scratched herself to bleeding, that she has a condtion called “intrahepatic cholestasis of pregnancy.” [liver disease that will go away a few days after delivery.] So the doctors shall induce.

Tonight, as I finished up a comprehensive honey-do list, I put on my melancholy cap and found myself getting a little verklempt. I started noticing all the things that were ending as I tackled each item.

Tonight is…

our last night at home as a family of four.

my last night tucking just two children into bed.

the last time Annette will have taken a bubble bath in our house to calm contractions.

the last night I have to share my bed with Bob (he’s Annette’s body-pillow, a.k.a. “The Homewrecker”).

the last time there’s just 4 of us around the dinner table.

our last night of decent sleep in our own bed for a while.

the next to last night that I can say “my girls,” and be referring to Annette and all my children.

the last night of wondering if he’ll be okay, in light of “the risks” and the statistics we’ve been having to consider.

Needless to say, we’re pretty anxious to get this little man into our world and home with us.

But even though we fully expect him to bring the same but unique joy that each new child brings, I had to be intentional about watching this night of “lasts.” I made sure I told Kenni how special he is, how proud I am of her, and that she’s the best big sister in the world. And I had to toss Caia up in the air a few extra times, tickle her a little longer, and stroke her cheek a little more softly than on a “normal” night.

After tonight, everything changes.

I hope we’re ready!

Promises, promises

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Genesis 9:16 When the bow is in the clouds, I will see it and remember e​the everlasting covenant between God and every living creature of all flesh that is on the earth.” 17 God said to Noah, “This is the sign of the covenant that I have established between me and all flesh that is on the earth.”

Wednesday morning, while working in the auditorium, this rainbow caught my attention from through the window. Absolutely gorgeous. Both ends were clearly right on the West Ridge property. I have to admit, after I hustled out to my truck to grab my camera and took some time to stare, I had a bit of a moment with God.

Annette and I have a bit of a rainbow story tied in with the night I proposed. So naturally I sent her some of these photos to tell her I was thinking about her. How romantic, I know.

It’s always good to see a reminder that God has promised He’ll never flood the entire Earth again. But I also thought of other promises He’s made to me…and some I’ve made to Him. It was a good reminder that He’s still listening. Still concerned. Still involved.

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My McKenna will be four (4) this week!

McKenna in the front yard on a rainy day - 05When you’re awaiting the arrival of your first child, EVERY parent tells you, “Enjoy every minute because they grow up so fast.” You shake your head and nod as if you know that already and are SURE that YOU will never take a single day for granted.

Bull.

Until the kid is in your arms, then walking, talking, counting, singing, running, climbing, smiling, screaming, laughing, making up jokes…you just have no clue how true that warning is.

My oldest daughter, McKenna Belle, will be 4-years-old this week. That baffles me. Four doesn’t seem that old before you have kids. But do the math… That’s 1/4 of the way to a driver’s license, 1/5 of the way to a junior year in college, and only 1/10 of the way to her having to drive ME to doctor’s appointments and daycare.

Thank you, Jesus, that you’ve given us eternity to enjoy this life…’cause you were a little trigger happy when you made our days as short as they are. I’m guessing it’s because you can’t wait for us to get to the good stuff.

Enjoy every minute, because they grow up so fast.

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Things are changing, thanks to Human3rror!

So I was up way too late last night and saw a tweet come through from fellow Twitter-er Human3rror. He was offering a challenge, and I bit. Ended up paying off as I won a free copy of a great new WordPress theme called Thesis. Sweet!

So i went ahead and installed it, but haven’t done any customization just yet. I’ll start playing with it over the next week or two (probably during late night feedings after Jackson is born). And then you can let me know what you think!

Two other folks won, too! Jenny Clayville and Lane Wood

Thanks a ton to John [Human3rror] for the diversion…and for the free stuff! ☆

Children Screaming at God

A couple nights ago, we were out later than usual doing…something. I don’t remember what.

Annette and I had driven separately. On the way home I had Kenni and Caia in my truck, and Annette was going to make a grocery run. That left me in charge of the bedtime routine.

Now, when you’re driving children home after their bedtime, there are two ways things can go. There’s the first way where the children fall asleep in the car and then stay asleep as you carry them in. Lay them gently on their beds, and they peacefully continue their slumber.

Then there’s the second way.

And on this particular night, things went the second way.

The girls fell out cold somewhere along the road home. But as soon as we pulled into the garage, they woke up. The quiet moment quickly dissolved into exhaustion induced hysteria. After carrying them inside, I sat them both on Kenni’s bed to get them into their pajamas. They were both whining at first. Then something triggered one of them into wailing…which then triggered the other one to follow suit.

Pandemonium. Screaming. Kenni’s crying for milk…”I’m thirsty!” Caia’s just crying for sleep. “Do what you must do, but do it NOW!” Holy Moses. There’s nothing I can do to calm them down but just give them what they need and lay them down in their beds.

As I was standing there in my own agony, I was hit with empathy for God. (Not that he needs my empathy, but stick with me here.) God has hundreds of millions of children living ‘in the world,’ and it’s fair to say that a large percentage of them are crying out to Him in one way or another at every moment of every day. Cries for help, repair, restoration, comfort… All totally legitimate and real needs that He is fully capable of fulfilling.

And then I started thinking about my unborn son, Jackson. He’s due sometime in January. But he’s got some challenges to overcome as he gets closer to his big day. He’s missing an umbilical artery, and his mom has just been diagnosed with intrahepatic cholestasis. I’m not going to lie…it’s a little scary. In his own way, I felt like he was screaming at me in that moment, too. “Dad! Pray for me!”

It was a sobering, surreal experience.

My friend Jason had twittered a thought earlier that day that slapped me in the face as I finally got the girls calmed down and into their beds…

When I pray God has an entire eternity to listen….for He is not within time. He labors over my life as an author over his characters. WOW!

Though our own stories are bound by a window of time, God’s is not. He can step in from anywhere in eternity and create our rescue. He can hear all our millions upon millions of simultaneous cries because He freely arranges his own moments according to His own will. [Wow! That's overwhelming!]

Being loved by a God who is trustworthy and desperately interested in meeting our needs is the greatest opportunity available to any man or woman.

Dinner in December Highlights: Part 1

Well, I’ve been slow as Christmas (hah!) when it comes to getting back in the game now that Dinner in December is over. What is DID? I’m glad you asked!

For the last 9 or 10 years, we at West Ridge have done an outreach-focused dinner theater at Christmas time. It’s evolved through the years, but typically it’s a mixture of music and comedy. Table Hosts come and decorate round tables in the Worship Center with beautiful table settings, and then their guests join them for the evening. It’s a pretty classy affair.

Historically it’s been more of a sketch comedy/variety show format, but this year we played with something different… A “play” of sorts.

The story was basically a sit-com style behind the scenes look at a morning talk show called “Good Day, Hampton Bay.” I’ll try to rip some of the footage from the actual “play,” but for now (since I’m still kinda jetlagged from my trip back from DID-ville), I’ll just post some of the video elements that helped make up the news show. They’re pretty sweet. Jeffrey Morris, one of my key volunteers who does a good bit of our video production put these together. Very nice work.

Enjoy! [BTW, for those of you who read my wife Annette's blog, she's "Beverly Stillson" in the "Good Day, Hampton Bay" opening credits.]

West Ridge Church “Going Green”

Extreme Christmas Home Makeover

Good Day, Hampton Bay Opening Credits

Dinner in December has taken center stage!

Dinner in December is HERE! Opening show last night went very well. I am SO proud of our amazing team. Actors, writers, musician, video geniuses, set builders, stagecrafters, stage crews, lighting designers, tables servers, table hosts…the list goes on and on. I so wish I could post pictures or clips, but there are still a couple thousand folks who still have to see the show, so I can’t blow any surprises. I’ll share a lot more after Saturday night’s show has been, um, shown.

Fry Yourself Up Some Pickles, Y’all

Fried Pickles

Several folks have asked for my Fried Pickle Recipe, and I’ve been promising I’d blog it for the world to enjoy.

I recommend frying these babies up while you watch Ga Tech trample UGA this Saturday.

Don’t knock it ’til you try it. They sounded disgusting to me…until I tried them.

Must be hamburger dills...preferably oval cut  

THE STUFF YOU’LL NEED:

Zatarain’s Seasoned Fish-Fri 
I’ve tried some other brands… Zat’s has a little bit of zing, and a great texture.

Dill Pickles
Must be Hamburger Dills. We prefer Vlasic “Ovals” because they have a little more surface area than regular round pickle chips. Your Zat’s will go a long way, so go ahead and grab a large jar, or a couple of smaller ones.

An Egg or Two 
For coating the pickles before breading.

Paper towels or newspaper, spread several layers thick on a large plate
For draining and serving your fried pickles.

Deep Fryer 
I reckon you could use a pan, but you’re gonna have more mess to clean up afterwards.

Canola Oil
Enough to fill your deep fryer to its appropriate markings. 

Two (2) shallow, flat-bottomed bowls
For battering the pickles.
 

Ranch Dressing
Something with a little tang is best… Peppercorn, parmesan, or something tasty. Plain ol’ Ranch is fine, too. 

 

WHAT YOU’LL DO WITH THE STUFF YOU NEED

Step 1: Preheat deep fryer to 350º.

Step 2: Dry pickles on a towel or paper towels. (makes it easier to coat the pickles with the egg)

Step 3: While pickles are drying, beat egg(s) in bowl.

Step 4: Coat pickles with egg, then dredge in Fish-Fri. (to make frying easier, wait to put pickles in fryer until entire batch is coated)

Step 5: If fryer is HOT (water flicked into the oil should dance and pop violently), lower a single layer of pickles into the oil. Watch the breading carefully… As it just begins to turn golden, you’re very close. It doesn’t take long… Usually just a couple or three minutes, but the color of the crust is more important than the cook time.

Step 6: As soon as pickles look golden crispy good, lift out of oil and dump onto paper towels or newspaper spread several layers thick on a plate. Drain pickles for a minute or two.

Step 7: Dip in ranch dressing (or not), and enjoy!

Cardboard Testimonies @ West Ridge Church

This idea isn’t necessarily new… I believe Willow Creek was the first to do this, but we first saw it when our good friend Tommy Politz over at Hillside in Amarillo, TX did it a few months back. It’s powerful when you see theirs on YouTube. They’ve had nearly 2,000,000 views already.

As powerful as it is to see another church do it, when you see faces you know…shoulders you hug…people you serve with…and broken hearts you’ve cried with step onto the stage to make statements like this, the breadth of God’s mercy takes on a whole new persona.

God is gracious.

Take a look…

I’m glad the bun in the oven is a boy.

I love my daughters. I really, really do. But I am beginning to think that the fact that our third child is a boy is not only a blessing, but a matter of God ensuring my own mental and physical long-term well-being.

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